Tidbits

Summers are great for...

Attending birthday parties (Happy Birthday, Grey!)
Having friends over for dinner (with plastic cups and mismatched placemats!):
"Swimming"/playing with hose


And don't forget...napping!
What are you doing to beat the heat?

Viernes (or, Friday)

Pretend it's Friday. Our scanner wasn't working. So I'm a day late.

Been gettin' my sketch on. Sharpie is my best friend.

Also for the cocktail drinkers out there I realize a martini wouldn't have champaign bubbles. Right? Oh well.

Mud. Pyes.

Collect pie toppings.
Scoop up some dirt from place in yard that's okay with Daddy.
Add water and stir. Makes me want brownie batter.
Decorate dorky WalMart sandals. The messier, the better.
And there you have a gooey mud pie. Delectable.
Now kiss the baby.
The slightly bored baby.
Happy weekend. You made it!

This is about motherhood

The last time we were at the library, I wanted so badly to wander the aisles, select books randomly, read their spines, their backs. And, ok, smell one or two. I adore the smell of musty books. New ones too.

But with two babies in tow I had to act fast, so I headed to the New Releases shelves and snatched two books on the end.

One, The Hand that First Held Mine, by Maggie O'Farrell was a seemingly serendipitous reunion between it, and me, the reader. A lovely read. I pay attention to different writing styles. It's fun; a passion of mine. Ms. O'Farrell certainly tapped into my emotional vulnerability. Her style is poetic. My heart picked up pace throughout. I stayed up until 1am finishing it last night. Cried. Checked on the kids.

And there's this part in there I just have to share with you. I'll precursor it by stating that Lexie, a main character, is a journalist in 1960s London. She's a new mum and pens an article on the same. I've put some blanks where the author uses some language, to keep my blog PG. ;-)

It is lengthy, but never have I discovered such a resolute description of one of the MANY sides of motherhood.

The Women We Become After Children:

"We change shape, we buy low-heeled shoes, we cut off our long hair. We begin to carry in our bags half-eaten rusks, a small tractor, a shred of beloved fabric, a plastic doll. We lose muscle tone, sleep, reason, perspective. Our hearts begin to live outside our bodies. They breathe, they eat, they crawl and-look!-they walk, they begin to speak to us. We learn that we must sometimes walk an inch at a time, to stop and examine every stick, every stone, every squashed tin along the way. We get used to not getting where we are going. We learn to darn, perhaps to cook, to patch the knees of dungarees. We get used to living with a love that suffuses us, suffocates us, blinds us, controls us. We live. We contemplate our bodies, our stretched skin, those threads of silver around our brows, our strangely enlarged feet. We look less in the mirror. We put our dry-clean-only clothes to the back of the wardrobe. Eventually, we throw them away. We school ourselves to stop saying ____ and _____ and learn to say 'my goodness' and 'heavens above.' We give up smoking, we colour our hair, we search the vistas of parks, swimming pools, libraries, cafes, for others of our kind. We know each other by our pushchairs, our sleepless gazes, the beakers we carry. We learn how to cool a fever, ease a cough, the four indicators of meningitis, that one must sometimes push a swing for two hours. We buy biscuit cutters, washable paints, aprons, plastic bowls. We no longer tolerate delayed buses, fighting in the street, smoking in restaurants, inconsistency, laziness, being cold. We contemplate younger women as they pass us in the street, with their cigarettes, their makeup, their tight-seamed dresses, their tiny handbags, their smooth, washed hair, and we turn away, we put down our heads, we keep pushing the pram up the hill." by Maggie O'Farrell

The section feels a little "poor me" and that's not the part I relate to (most of the time..ha). I am honored to be the primary caretaker for my children. Even though their needs are endless, I thoroughly enjoy being their mommy!! I adore them.

iPhone pics by who else? my hot babe husband Shawn

Night, or, rather, day, at the museum

WAM is free on Saturdays. I thought it'd be a great choice for a mommy/son date, so I took Wilder this weekend. Story hung out with Grandma while Daddy mowed (and weed-whacked and swept! If our grass wasn't dry from the heat, it would've looked perfect).

I've been to WAM a few times and knew the Living Room was specifically designed for child's play. So we went their first.

We saw a bunch of cool Andy Warhol stuff:

Then we played on a glass platform that has lots of pretty glass sculptures underneath it:
I would show you the picture of my and Wilder's bare feet on the glass but my feet are really ugly.
On to see more glass...the hanging piece, my favorite part of the museum:

And we skipped my second favorite part, the store, because I knew there'd be breakable stuff Wilder would be desperate to touch. Plus I left my wallet in the car...a smart idea, really.
There were little sketchbooks throughout the museum, on little tables. I liked this sketch:
If you're in the area on a Saturday, wander into the museum. It wasn't stressful taking Wilder...the children's area entertained him for about 45 minutes (coloring pages, magnets, dress up, stacking boxes...). And the museum is so open, most things off the ground, that one doesn't have to worry (too much) about kids climbing/breaking things. Plus, it's an air-conditioned, free activity!

Looking forward to the next date with my beautiful boy.
He's two on the 19th. How'd that happen?